I am a self-professed reader, make the devourer, of self-help books. Mostly, the “How to Become Happier” kind. If I see a magazine or book on a newsstand with the words Be Happier or Live a More Joyful Life, plastered on the cover, I’m hooked. Searching for that new twist on uping my happiness quotient, I’ve learned each author’s concepts are about the same. Adopt an attitude of gratitude, foster friendships, forgive the past, meditate, and so on. After implementing several of the approaches mentioned in these books and articles, yes, I am a happier person, but something was still missing. There was one idea these books and articles had in common I hadn’t tried. Volunteering. Doing something for someone else. Volunteering, they said, gives your life meaning and purpose, makes a difference in other people’s lives, connects you with others, gets you out of your own head, broadens your scope, and helps you grow. I admit I’ve always turned my nose up at the idea. I didn’t want to get involved. My go-to excuse? I’m too busy.
‘Why not give it a try?’ I thought.
So, when the opportunity came to join in the Petal It Forward project at work, I was all in.
Petal it Forward is a national event started by the Society of American Florists designed to promote the positive effects of both giving and receiving flowers. We spent the day before the event removing thorns off roses and bunching over a thousand flowers into bouquets. The next morning, we loaded our vehicles with bucket after bucket of flowers. Our team met in Old Town Salinas with volunteers from another company and two local growers who had donated the flowers. After breaking into groups, we hit the streets, bouquets in hand, and approached random people presenting them with a bouquet for themselves and then giving them a second bouquet to give to someone of their choice or Petal It Forward. At first, it felt a bit awkward. Some would-be recipients did not want to participate, avoiding making eye contact as they hurried past. But, when I saw the joy and happiness on the people’s faces we gave flowers to and the eagerness with which they embraced our purpose all reservations fell away, and I was able to enjoy the experience.
Giving flowers is all about making others feel good, making people smile, and brightening someone else’s life. In short, to make someone happy. Flowers foster feelings of well-being, express how we feel about someone, symbolize new beginnings, friendship, and love.
Petal it Forward isn’t just about giving, it’s about receiving too. It’s about the joy you feel when you see the sheer delight on someone’s face when you hand them a bouquet, the puzzled look they get when you hand them the second bouquet and the excitement that comes over them when they know who they’re giving the second bunch of flowers to.
Four hundred bouquets later, we sat in a restaurant and basked in the glow of our morning. The scene was surreal. Recipients, flowers in hand, rushing back to work, or enjoying a meal occasionally taking a moment to stop and smell the roses were everywhere.
Sadly, I haven’t made time for volunteering in my life, but I totally intend to now. Volunteering not only makes a difference in someone else’s life, but it also releases those feel-good hormones we’re all searching for, you get to meet some awesome people, and see people you already know in a different light. Volunteering is easy. It can be as simple as offering someone the shopping cart you just untangled from the jumbled mess at Walmart, reading to senior citizens, or working on a local campaign. I’m not sure what my future in this new endeavor will look like, but I know volunteering will play a role in my retirement.
I hope you’ll enjoy some of the beautiful smiles my fellow volunteers and I were gifted with that day.
If you’d like to learn more about Petal It Forward, please click on the link below
Smiles are contagious; let’s start an epidemic
Love it!!!
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Great, I am so happy you do. It took me so long to get it together. Thank you for inviting me to be part of the wonderful event.
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Beautifully said, my friend. I know you are going to be so happy in your retirement.
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Thanks, Dee.
Some days it feels like “so many things, so little time”
When will I fit it all in? I’m excited to get started.
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I love the concept! I’m afraid that I’d been one of those skeptical people if a stranger tried to hand me a bunch of flowers (“what are they selling?”) on the street. This is a good reminder to me to be more open to random kindnesses.
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I’m not sure I would have been open to it had someone come up to me with flowers either. I’d wonder about their motives. I was surprised most everyone was very open to the experience.
Thanks for your support, It’s truly appreciated
Laura
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That’s totally me too! This post is an excellent reminder for me to be more open to receiving acts of kindness!
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Yes! Receiving is often more difficult than giving.
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I have loved reading your posts! Volunteering is definitely so awesome and rewarding and I’m glad you’ve made it a part of your life! We like to volunteer at our humane society and I’m sure the SPCA would love to have you!
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Nice!
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Sakata Seed America, Inc.
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Salinas, CA 93907
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Thanks, Mark.
See you soon
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Hi Sarah
I know you’ve been volunteering most of your life. That’s wonderful. I’m looking forward to finding my niche as a volunteer. I’m leaning toward the elderly.
Love you
Laura
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This is such an awesome post to start my day on a positive note.
Receiving these ‘virtual flowers’ and your thoughts behind this, was as good (if not better) as receiving real-life ones. Thank you!
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Oh my gosh, thank you. Your comments made my day.
Thanks for the flowers!
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What a great initiative and volunteering opportunity! I love making people happy, and it looks like handing out flowers would certainly do that. I can imagine how some people are very apprehensive about receiving them, since they might have thought it was a scam, or you would ask for money, since nothing is free anymore these days. Whenever (if ever) I retire, I hope to add volunteerism to my life as well. Either with animals or children.
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Hi Liesbet
I’ve found there are so many options. I’m looking SPCA and beach clean-up days. I also enjoy the elderly. We’ll see what the future holds.
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What a great experience and a lesson for others! I would love to share this on Making Midlife Matter. If you are agreeable go to the site and click on submit.
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Hello Elena
I’d be honored to share my post on Volunteering-Gateway to Happiness on your blog Making Midlife Matter. I’m a bit confused as to which site I go to an click submit. I assume it’s Making Midlife Matter, but wanted to be sure. Thank you so much for this opportunity
Laura
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Here’s the link! I am scheduling for January. https://makingmidlifematter.com/submissions/
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Thanks Elena
I appreciate it.
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